Shincheonji lesson 54: figurative groom, bride, widow and orphan

Lesson 54 · Introductory

Based on the full Closer Look lesson study

Main verses used

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What SCJ teaches

This section comes from class notes that an attendee wrote down during SCJ’s 9-month Bible study seminar, posted with the full Closer Look study. They are not SCJ’s printed curriculum, so the wording is the note-taker’s.

The meanings on the board

The board reads “Groom: Spirit | Bride: Flesh,” “Widow: Pastor who betrayed without the Holy Spirit,” and “Orphan: Believers belonging to the pastor who betrayed.” At the first coming, “Groom → God” and “Bride → Jesus.” At the second coming, “Groom → Jesus” and “Bride → New John.” The hope is “To be qualified to enter the wedding banquet at the Second Coming!” A side note adds, “We must give thanks and be grateful for God’s grace in choosing us out of many people.”

Seed, sons and brides

The lesson starts with Galatians 3:26-29. Physically a man has seed and a woman does not, so when Paul calls all believers sons, “he implies that you all have the seed.” Believers are also called brides of Christ, and “we have to think spiritually. If we think physically, we will become confused.”

God as husband

In Hosea 2 God laments over an unfaithful wife. The notes say that from verse 19 “there would be a different one that He would then betroth,” so “God is saying I will marry a different you.” In nature, a covenant comes first and then the groom gives seed and a child is born. In Jeremiah 31:32 God calls himself Israel’s husband, so “The marriage between a physical man and woman is a figurative representation” of God and his people.

Paul spoke of being in the pains of childbirth (Galatians 4:19). The notes say Paul is “representing himself like a spiritual woman, which essentially means a pastor,” who receives the seed and raises children, giving milk before solid food (1 Corinthians 3:1-3). Students are told the same applies to them: “God did not give you the open word for you to keep it only to yourself,” and bringing someone to study “really levels you up quickly.”

The two weddings

Jesus compared the kingdom of heaven to a wedding banquet (Matthew 22:2). The notes recall that “In Matthew chapter 13, the kingdom of heaven is compared to six different things,” and say these pictures are “the secrets of heaven that are opened and fulfilled at the time of the second coming.” At the first coming the Spirit came down on Jesus at his baptism (Matthew 3:16), so the “you” of Hosea is Jesus. At the second coming Jesus is the Spirit who speaks to the churches, and the one who overcomes receives the morning star (Revelation 2:28). John receives the open scroll (Revelation 10). Revelation 19 announces the wedding of the Lamb, and since the Lamb stands on Mount Zion, “That is the location of the wedding banquet.”

The oxen and fattened cattle of Matthew 22:4 are explained: oxen are God’s workers, and “Those that once belonged to God betrayed and are now being butchered.” A place that claims to host the banquet must explain this food: “these details must be mentioned, or that place is not the true wedding banquet.” Three things qualify a guest: wedding clothes, “The lamp (the Word)” and “The oil (The Word of Testimony).”

Satan’s wedding, widows and orphans

In Babylon (Revelation 18:23), “The bridegroom is the devil or Satan,” working through human brides. A widow is a pastor once married to God whose spirit then left, so his word “is no longer open.” His congregation become orphans. “Both of these places are judged at the second coming.”

In SCJ’s own books

Each passage was checked against the scanned page image; page numbers are as printed.

The Explanation of Parables (Shincheonji), page 90, says that “The true meaning of the figurative bridegroom and bride is spirit and flesh (living flesh).” Its diagram gives the widow and orphan as “A shepherd who betrayed and their followers.” Page 91 says a widow is “a shepherd from whom the holy spirit left.” For the second coming:

“At the Second Coming, the bridegroom of the wedding banquet of the Lamb is Jesus, and Jesus’ wife (bride) is the promised shepherd, the one who overcomes (Rv 3:12, 21, Rv 19:8, Rv 22:17).”

The conclusion uses the plural:

“At this time, those who prepare the lamp, oil, and wedding clothes to qualify as the brides and participate in the wedding banquet receive Jesus and the spirit of martyrs.”

How the lesson notes compare with the books

  • Groom = spirit; bride = flesh; widow and orphans = a betraying shepherd and his followers. Same teaching (notes; Parables pp. 90-91).
  • The second-coming bride. Same direction, different name. The notes say “New John.” The book says “the promised shepherd, the one who overcomes” (Parables p. 91).
  • One bride or many. Both sources use both. The notes name one bride, yet call believers “brides of Christ.” The book names one bride, then speaks of those who qualify “as the brides” (Parables p. 91).
  • First-coming widow. Book-only. The book names John the Baptist as the widow and his congregation as orphans (Parables p. 91).

What the Bible says

  • In Hosea 2 God promises to win back the same wife he has just described. “However, in the future I will allure her; I will lead her back into the wilderness and speak tenderly to her. (Hosea 2:14, NET)
  • She will call him husband instead of the old name she used. At that time,” declares the Lord, “you will call me, ‘My husband’; you will never again call me, ‘My master.’ (Hosea 2:16, NET)
  • Revelation explains the bride’s linen as the deeds of many saints. She was permitted to be dressed in bright, clean, fine linen” (for the fine linen is the righteous deeds of the saints). (Revelation 19:8, NET)
  • The verse the notes give as “1 Corinthians 6:13” for Paul’s children is 2 Corinthians 6:13. Now as a fair exchange—I speak as to my children—open wide your hearts to us also. (2 Corinthians 6:13, NET)
  • The white stone is promised in Revelation 2:17, not in Revelation 2:26-29 as the notes say. The one who has an ear had better hear what the Spirit says to the churches. To the one who conquers, I will give him some of the hidden manna, and I will give him a white stone, and on that stone will be written a new name that no one can understand except the one who receives it.’ (Revelation 2:17, NET)
  • Matthew 13 also includes the pearl, missing from the notes’ list of six. “Again, the kingdom of heaven is like a merchant searching for fine pearls. (Matthew 13:45, NET)
  • In the letter of James, widows and orphans are people to care for. Pure and undefiled religion before God the Father is this: to care for orphans and widows in their adversity and to keep oneself unstained by the world. (James 1:27, NET)

Where SCJ’s reading conflicts with the Bible

This lesson’s board reads “Groom: Spirit | Bride: Flesh.” It says at the first coming “Groom → God” and “Bride → Jesus,” and at the second coming “Groom → Jesus” and “Bride → New John.” A widow is a “Pastor who betrayed without the Holy Spirit,” and orphans are his congregation: “Both of these places are judged at the second coming.” It says the oxen of Matthew 22 mean “Those that once belonged to God betrayed and are now being butchered,” and that “these details must be mentioned, or that place is not the true wedding banquet.” SCJ’s The Explanation of Parables (p. 91) says: “At the Second Coming, the bridegroom of the wedding banquet of the Lamb is Jesus, and Jesus’ wife (bride) is the promised shepherd, the one who overcomes.” Scripture names the bride of Christ many times, and it’s never one man.

  1. 1. The bride of Christ is the church

    The board says the second-coming bride is “New John,” and SCJ’s book says it’s “the promised shepherd, the one who overcomes.”

    Scripture names the bride:

    • “Husbands, love your wives just as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her … This mystery is great—but I am actually speaking with reference to Christ and the church” (Ephesians 5:25, 32).
    • Paul to the Corinthian believers: “I promised you in marriage to one husband, to present you as a pure virgin to Christ” (2 Corinthians 11:2).
    • At the wedding of the Lamb, the bride’s fine linen “is the righteous deeds of the saints” (Revelation 19:8), plural, all God’s people.
    • “Come, I will show you the bride, the wife of the Lamb!” and the angel shows John “the holy city, Jerusalem, descending out of heaven from God” (Revelation 21:9-10). The bride is God’s whole redeemed people, pictured as a city.
    • “the Spirit and the bride say, ‘Come!’” (22:17). The bride is the church inviting the world.

    Making one man the bride of Christ takes the place that belongs to the whole church and gives it to a single person.

  2. 2. Jesus is the bridegroom, not the bride

    The board says that at the first coming, “Bride → Jesus.”

    • John the Baptist said of Jesus: “The one who has the bride is the bridegroom. The friend of the bridegroom, who stands by and listens for him, rejoices greatly when he hears the bridegroom’s voice” (John 3:29).
    • Jesus called himself the bridegroom: “The wedding guests cannot fast while the bridegroom is with them, can they?” (Mark 2:19-20).
    • Scripture never calls Jesus a bride.
  3. 3. Hosea 2: God wins back the same wife

    The notes say Hosea 2:19 means “God is saying I will marry a different you.”

    • Hosea’s passage is about the same unfaithful wife: “in the future I will allure her; I will lead her back into the wilderness and speak tenderly to her” (2:14). “you will call me, ‘My husband’” (2:16). “I will commit myself to you forever” (2:19).
    • The chapter ends: “I will say to ‘Not My People’ … ‘You are my people!’” (2:23).
    • Paul quotes this to describe God calling “not only from the Jews but also from the Gentiles” (Romans 9:24-26). God restores his people and widens his family. He doesn’t marry a different individual.
  4. 4. Galatians 3: All are one in Christ

    The lesson uses Galatians 3:26-29 to say that because believers are called sons, “he implies that you all have the seed.”

    • Paul’s point is that “in Christ Jesus you are all sons of God through faith … There is neither Jew nor Greek … there is neither male nor female—for all of you are one in Christ Jesus” (3:26-28).
    • “if you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham’s descendants [seed]” (3:29). The seed is Christ (3:16), and believers are included by belonging to him. It isn’t a physical analogy about who carries seed.
  5. 5. Galatians 4:19: Christ formed in them

    The notes say Paul is “representing himself like a spiritual woman, which essentially means a pastor,” who receives the seed and raises children.

    • Paul says, “My children—I am again undergoing birth pains until Christ is formed in you!” (Galatians 4:19). The goal is Christ formed in them.
    • Paul uses several family images for his care: like a nursing mother (1 Thessalonians 2:7) and like a father (2:11). They’re pictures of love, not a doctrine that pastors are brides.
  6. 6. Bringing someone to study “really levels you up quickly”

    The lesson tells students, “God did not give you the open word for you to keep it only to yourself,” and that bringing someone to study “really levels you up quickly.”

    • Sharing the gospel is good. But students are being asked to recruit before they’ve finished the course, and before they’ve been told everything it teaches. Paul’s standard is “open proclamation of the truth” (2 Corinthians 4:2). (See Lesson 14.)
  7. 7. The wedding banquet: The food is the feast

    The lesson says of the oxen of Matthew 22:4, “Those that once belonged to God betrayed and are now being butchered,” and that a true banquet must explain this.

    • In the parable, the king’s message is: “Look! The feast I have prepared for you is ready. My oxen and fattened cattle have been slaughtered, and everything is ready. Come to the wedding banquet” (22:4). The animals are the meal.
    • If the oxen were betrayers, the guests would be eating betrayers. The detail simply shows the feast is ready and generous.
    • Jesus’ point: Those first invited refused (22:5-6), so the king invited “everyone you find” (22:9). God’s invitation is open to all. (See Lesson 31 on the wedding garment.)
  8. 8. The morning star is Jesus

    The lesson says the one who overcomes receives the morning star (Revelation 2:28).

    • Jesus says, “I am … the bright morning star” (Revelation 22:16). The promise is that overcomers receive Christ himself.
    • The promise is “to the one who conquers” in Thyatira (2:26), and every believer is promised the same (21:7). Peter speaks of the day when “the morning star rises in your hearts” (2 Peter 1:19). (See Lesson 45; its new section isn’t live yet, so the link goes to the lesson page.)
  9. 9. The wedding supper is at Christ’s return

    The lesson says the Lamb stands on Mount Zion, so “That is the location of the wedding banquet.”

    • Revelation 19 announces “the wedding celebration of the Lamb” (19:7-9), and right after it, heaven opens and Jesus rides out as “King of kings and Lord of lords” (19:11-16). The wedding belongs to his visible return.
    • Believers have already come to Mount Zion through Jesus (Hebrews 12:22-24). (See Lesson 44; its new section isn’t live yet, so the link goes to the lesson page.)
  10. 10. Widows and orphans are people to care for, and Jesus leaves no orphans

    The board says a widow is a “Pastor who betrayed without the Holy Spirit” and orphans are his congregation, and “Both of these places are judged at the second coming.”

    • In Scripture, widows and orphans are the vulnerable whom God protects: “Pure and undefiled religion before God the Father is this: to care for orphans and widows in their adversity” (James 1:27).
    • Jesus promised his followers: “I will not abandon you as orphans, I will come to you” (John 14:18).
    • SCJ’s book names John the Baptist as the first-coming widow. Jesus said no one born of women is greater (Matthew 11:11). (See Lesson 37.)
  11. 11. Babylon’s bridegroom

    The notes say that in Revelation 18:23, “The bridegroom is the devil or Satan.”

    • The verse says of fallen Babylon: “The voices of the bridegroom and his bride will never be heard in you again” (Revelation 18:23). It echoes Jeremiah’s descriptions of desolation, when the sounds of joy and weddings cease (Jeremiah 7:34; 25:10).
    • It describes a city so ruined that no weddings happen there anymore. It isn’t about Satan as a groom.
  12. 12. “God’s grace in choosing us out of many”

    A side note says, “We must give thanks and be grateful for God’s grace in choosing us out of many people.”

    • Gratitude for grace is right. But Scripture’s chosen people are all who belong to Christ: “he chose us in Christ before the foundation of the world” (Ephesians 1:4). It isn’t a select group within the church.

What the lesson is really for

This lesson makes one man the bride of Christ and labels other churches widows and orphans:

  • At the first coming the bride was Jesus; at the second it’s the New John.
  • A true banquet must explain the oxen as betrayers.
  • Pastors without the “open word” are widows; their members are orphans; both are judged.
  • Students should bring others to study.
  • SCJ’s book says Jesus’ bride is the promised shepherd.

The biblical answer: The bride of Christ is the church (Ephesians 5:25-32; 2 Corinthians 11:2), clothed in the righteous deeds of the saints (Revelation 19:8) and pictured as the holy city (21:9-10). Jesus is the bridegroom (John 3:29). God’s invitation to the feast is open to all (Matthew 22:9). And Jesus promised his followers, “I will not abandon you as orphans” (John 14:18).

What’s happening behind the lesson

These notes are our reading of the lesson text, using Steven Hassan’s BITE model (behavior, information, thought and emotional control). They describe what the text does, not the teacher’s intent. Hassan notes that not every group uses every item. Source: Steven Hassan, BITE Model, Freedom of Mind.

  • Behavior: can turn study into recruiting. Students are told the word is not “to keep it only to yourself” and that bringing someone to study “really levels you up quickly,” before they have finished the course.
  • Information: can set a test only one group can pass (our reading). A true banquet must explain the oxen with “Who, what, when, where, why, and how,” or “that place is not the true wedding banquet.”
  • Emotional: can attach fear to other churches. A pastor whose word is “no longer open” is a widow, his members are orphans, and “Both of these places are judged at the second coming.”

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