Family Packet · Part 6

Encouraging independent thinking through comparisons

Written by Chris Vishoot · Fact checked by Bible Vaccine Center Editorial Team

As time continues, and your loved one becomes more comfortable discussing their beliefs with you, we can begin exploring another approach.

Comparing Shincheonji’s teachings with those of other religious organizations.

But remember what we discussed in the previous section.

We’re not going to randomly introduce arguments from ChatGPT, Reddit, or articles criticizing Shincheonji.

Instead, we’re going to build upon what your loved one has already said.

Why?

Because sometimes it’s easier for someone to recognize a problem with a particular argument when they see that same argument being used by another organization.

Let’s look at two examples.

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Example 1: Shincheonji and the World Mission Society Church of God

Shincheonji

Shincheonji teaches that Satan can work through people outside the organization to deceive believers and draw them away from the truth.

Members may interpret criticism of Shincheonji as persecution, or as an attempt by Satan to interfere with their salvation.

WMSCOG

The World Mission Society Church of God (WMSCOG) also teaches distinctive interpretations of the Bible, including the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, and members may encounter similar warnings about outside criticism and spiritual deception.

Now, imagine your loved one has been discussing why they believe negative information about Shincheonji comes from Satan.

Rather than immediately telling them they’re wrong, you might ask:

Try asking

“I’ve noticed that other religious groups also warn their members about criticism. How do you think someone could determine whether those warnings are legitimate?”

Or:

Try asking

“If two different churches both claim that Satan is using outsiders to persecute them, how could we determine which church is telling the truth?”

Notice that we’re not asking them to abandon their faith.

We’re asking them to consider whether the reasoning they use to evaluate another organization should also apply to their own.

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Example 2: Shincheonji and Jehovah’s Witnesses

Here’s another example.

Shincheonji

Shincheonji teaches that Jesus’ second coming is fulfilled spiritually through the events and people identified in its interpretation of Revelation, rather than through the publicly visible bodily return expected in many Christian traditions.

Jehovah’s Witnesses

Jehovah’s Witnesses also teach that Christ’s presence began invisibly, although their interpretation and prophetic timeline differ significantly from Shincheonji’s.

Now, suppose your loved one has been explaining why they believe Jesus’ return is spiritual rather than bodily visible.

You might ask:

Try asking

“Did you know that Jehovah’s Witnesses also believe Christ’s presence began invisibly?”

Then, depending on their response:

Try asking

“How would you determine whether their interpretation or Shincheonji’s interpretation is correct?”

Or:

Try asking

“What kind of evidence would you expect either group to provide to support that claim?”

Again, we’re not trying to win an argument.

We’re encouraging your loved one to consider how religious claims should be evaluated.

Why comparisons can be helpful

When someone is deeply committed to a particular religious organization, they may have difficulty evaluating its claims from an outside perspective.

However, they may be more willing to examine similar claims made by another organization.

This creates an opportunity to discuss broader questions.

  • How can we distinguish a true interpretation from a false one?
  • Should we evaluate our own religious beliefs using the same standards we apply to other religions?
  • What evidence would be sufficient to demonstrate that a particular prophetic interpretation is correct?
  • And importantly, would we be willing to change our minds if the evidence contradicted what we currently believe?

The goal is to help your loved one develop consistent standards for evaluating religious claims, including their own.

Working together with the Bible Vaccine Center

You don’t have to navigate these conversations alone.

The Bible Vaccine Center and the Closer Look Initiative have resources examining Shincheonji’s doctrines, biblical interpretations, historical claims, and similarities with other high-control religious organizations.

Depending on your relationship with your loved one, the conversations you’ve already had, and what they’ve expressed, we can work together to identify which resources may be useful.

For example, if your loved one has been discussing the second coming of Jesus, we can examine the relevant biblical passages and compare how different religious organizations interpret them.

If they’ve been discussing persecution or Satan’s influence, we can explore how different groups use similar arguments to explain criticism.

And if they’ve been discussing Shincheonji’s promised pastor, we can examine the biblical and historical claims behind that teaching.

But remember, we’re not going to simply hand you a collection of articles and tell you to confront your loved one with them.

We want to understand the conversations you’re already having.

We can then help you research the relevant claims, identify thoughtful questions, and consider how to continue the discussion respectfully.

Resources:

Bible Vaccine Center and Closer Look Initiative are run by the same team.

The ultimate goal: independent thinking

Throughout this process, remember why we’re doing this.

We’re not trying to replace Shincheonji’s authority with another organization’s authority.

We’re not trying to manipulate your loved one into agreeing with us.

And we’re certainly not trying to win theological arguments at the expense of your relationship.

We want your loved one to become comfortable asking questions, examining evidence, comparing different perspectives, and reaching their own conclusions.

That includes the freedom to disagree with us.

The relationship you’ve rebuilt provides the foundation for these conversations.

Your listening skills help you understand what your loved one actually believes.

And thoughtful questions can encourage them to examine those beliefs more deeply.

This process takes patience, and there is no guaranteed timeline or outcome.

But by approaching your loved one with genuine respect and curiosity, you can help create an environment where independent thinking is welcomed rather than feared.